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OTD: Leaving Religion

In order to understand why some people leave religion, we need to understand why people join and stay in the first place. Religion provides different things for different people, including community, moral, and intellectual guidance. The broad stereotyping of OTD people that sometimes happens isn’t helpful or accurate. It is a complex phenomenon with no…

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OTD: Leaving Religion

OTD: Leaving Religion Intro

David introduces the next series of the 18Forty Podcast: why people join and leave religion and what we can learn from their decisions.

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OTD: Leaving Religion Intro

David introduces the next series of the 18Forty Podcast: why people join…

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Shulem Deen: Faith, Without Faith

In this episode of the 18Forty Podcast, David discusses with special guest…

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OTD: Leaving Religion Conclusion

As we challenge the stereotype of those who leave religion, we can…

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OFF THE DERECH: HOW TO RESPOND TO THE CHALLENGE

This was one of the first books written about the phenomenon of people leaving the Jewish community. It’s a bit dated and spends too much time on the emotional component and not enough on the intellectual issue that causes many to leave. It is still an important read, if anything as a presentation of many communal perceptions and some of the important enduring sensitivities.

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HIDDEN HERETICS: JEWISH DOUBT IN THE DIGITAL AGE

This is a window into a world previously under examined–Hasidic Jews wearing double lives. The internet has created a more porous society in a world that once had stronger boundaries. It is a modern story of sorts, how the internet and online engagement has reshaped what affiliation looks like for many. It’s an important read that reimagines how faith and commitment have been challenged and reshaped in the modern world.

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FORGIVE US, FATHER-IN-LAW, FOR WE KNOW NOT WHAT TO THINK: LETTER TO A PHILOSOPHICAL DROPOUT FROM ORTHODOXY

Hardly anyone has heard of this essay, even fewer have read it. And it’s a shame. Rabbi Carmy is one of the most profound writers of our generation, though he can sometimes be a bit difficult to understand. In this brief compendium written for the now defunct organization ATID, he writes to a philosophical dropout from orthodoxy. Too many other texts focus on those who leave because they weren’t loved or appreciated. Here, Rabbi Carmy masterfully addresses those dissatisfied with the philosophical tenets of Jewish life. It is presented as a real letter to a student and I have no reason not to think it is. It is a rationalistic explanation of the limits of rationalism. And, as he concludes, “the most surprising discovery you make may be yourself.”

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